I got another comment that says that Missy has the classical features of FAS.
Of course, we can't know for sure 100%.
However, I have talked to doctors about these comments and they shake their heads...
SHE does have cranial facial anomalies. THIS is true. She has cleft palate and cleft lip and a host of other differences due to her growing and parts of bone structure not growing to keep up. She has a lot more surgery in her future.
Unless a person completely understands these anomalies and the whys and wherefores like the surgeon does they shouldn't assume it's FAS.
I have taken a course in FAS. It was very interesting. They were extremely strong on the point that you cannot, cannot, cannot diagnose FAS on looks alone.
PS. Whether or not I can trust her word, I can't say, but I asked bio mom point blank if she had smoked, drank or done drugs during her pregnancy with these kids and she denied using drugs and alcohol before and during her pregnancy. I have also asked her sister if she thought there was a chance that bio mom had even just once drank during the pregnancy and she, even though the sisters don't get along at all, denied that her sister did so. She was willing to dish out other info on her, but this seems to be the unanimous answer from everyone I question.